I have this month in the bag lots of light all around
many ways to find light For me it has been removing toxic people from my life
People that are not really friends ,or consider your feelings , tell you about the great time they have , and never invited you , The gossips , and so on !!
I have been doing so much better without the bullshit and so called friends
My mornings are my own ..
coffee tastes better when you know your having it ,,,LOL
I went for a long walk In the woods close by a graveyard just a left turn away
I found a dead rabbit , I looked at it for a long time .
I buried what was left and moved on my way Very interesting stroll coming upon the frozen blonde bunny ,,
My life is where I need it to be and Im so grateful to have come this far in my journey and growth
and Im much more creative and productive
I have some spells , and witchcraft videos ideas coming up
Im off now to make some mixed berry jam
and dry out my rabbit paw ..
Dark winter Blessings
Setting boundaries for myself , Knowing what I want , Saying NO , and claiming my own sense of self
Has left me more with a sense of who I am , What I need , what I want ,
Its the true essence of who and what I am . and thats not a bad thing ,
Some may feel its wrong to have such strong boundaries and standards ,
But with out them , You have lost yourself To what others think you should be and tell you what you want ??
Have a strong set of high set boundaries Brings me in to more of an alignment with source Than if I
Just let my standards fall away and let others pull me around and tell me how it is ??
By doing this Im deny myself the real me By being lead or hurt by others .
But by embracing myself and being true to your my own values
Some may think Im separate or like to think I am , But with my extension of a solid firm set of limits
Im actually tapped into and an extension of my source energy and lets me be me .More than others would ever allow .
and I have a feeling of oneness
and by doing this Im tapped into .my unique and stronger sense of self
and when I honour my feelings and stand by them
well the more happiness I have . Due to being true to myself if know one else can do that
I know I can do that for ME !
my set of boundaries dont mean I want to control how others or how they act ,, that i cant control nor do i want to
it lets me control my world reality and reality I call my world ..
Not being defined how others may see me
But only how I see me ..
By pulling myself from situations and people and being true to myself
and honour how I feel first , Not throwing in the towel to be a people pleaser
How can I deny what I want and who I am , JUST TO PLEASE SOMEONE ELSE ??? NOOOO
I have talked about this before . setting high standards and setting up boundaries for yourself
Shadow work and a list of what bothers you is a good place to start